Meeting The Onewill feel like nothing youve ever felt before.
Itll feel like youre in the right place at the right time. Youll be overwhelmed by happiness and this calming sense of reassurance that everything is alright.Youll just know you dont “re going to have to” search for your soulmate anymore.
All of a sudden, it only clicks.
My husband and I decided to get married after less than five weeks of dating. Both of us had been fairly commitment-phobic before, but when we finally connected, we knew it was meant to be.
But what if you want some concrete proof? What are the telltale signs that this person is truly the one for you? Although theres no scientific way to assess this, there are some common signsthat point to the beginning of an everlastingromance.
If your partner does the things on this list, you may have just found the relationship of a lifetime.
1. Theyll Accept How Strange You Are( And Join In, Too)
The perfect guy will merely add to all the strange things you do while continuing to make “youre feeling” accepted.
I neverfeel like Im a weirdo around my husband. In fact, I feel like I finally gratified someone who will join in on the fun.
If Ive only landed an unsuspecting wet willy on my husband, Ican usually expect one right backin the next half-day or so as payback. Hes comfy doing weird stuff like that around me, as I am around him.
The One will be open to all the comically wacky parts of your personality, all while showing off their wacky side too.
2. Theyll Always Be There To Cheer You On
Whether its your next 5K or a nerve-racking speaking involvement, The One will be there as a great big support system.
In fact, theyll likely be sitting front row.
My husband isnt exactly a hugefan ofCrossFit, but he blithely joined me at apartners beach Workout Of The Dayas soon as I asked.
Hes my biggest fan and a reliablepartner.
3. Theyll Want To Be With You As Much As You Want To Be With Them
In prior relationships, I always felt like the balance of how much day we wanted to expend together was just off. Now that Im marriage, I realize that in the relationship, that equal balance is easy to find.
The One wont stimulate you chase them for their time or attention.
Instead, theyll want to be with you as much as you want to be with them. And theyll build that clear with their actions.
4. Theyll Never Try To Keep Secrets
The One will want to share everything with you andavoid keeping you in the dark when it comes to their life.
Within our first week of dating, my husband and I had laid everything out on the table. I knew about all of his prior relationships, accomplishments, missteps, and even rugby injuries.
He didnt need to keep anything from me.
Although not everything is strictly need-to-know, in a relationship with The One, youll end up knowing it all: the good, the bad, and even the unnecessary.
5. Theyll Never Fail To Blow Your Mind In Bed
Every. Goddamn. Time.
6. Theyll Understand Your Wants And Needs, Even If You Dont Always Understand Them Yourself
The One will understand that sometimes, you wont exactly know what youre feeling.
Lucky for you, theyre around even when things get confounding. My husband implicitly understands when I require my space, and on the other hand, is there for me when I require comfort.
Your partner will understand exactly whats right for you, even if you dont.
7. They Wont Be Able To Get Enough of You, No Matter What You Look Like
Sometimes, I catch my husband dopily staring at me when Im doing the lamest thing, like cleaning out the French press. He says he cant help it because he determines me beautiful all the time.
Normally, I tell him to get his glass checked, but I still cant assist but smile.
The One is likely to be hooked on you, all the time, and not just when youre at your best.
It doesnt matter if youre dressed to the nines for a dinner party or groggily rolling out of bed at midday on a Sunday.The One will want you , no matter what.
8. Theyll Always Turn To You For Advice
If your partner is asking you for help on a big decision or important call in “peoples lives”, thats a good sign.
Asking foryour advice shows that they trust you more than anyone else. More importantly, it shows that they think you have something special to offer them thatyoull have their best interests at heart.
They could run to elsebut chose to turn to you.
The One will value your thoughts and sentiments in this fashion.
9. Theyll Make Little Trips Seem Like Big Adventures
The One will stimulate every mundane adult task seem like a day at a theme park.
I used to be irritated by the mere thought of a grocery store trip-up, wanting itto be over as quickly as possible. Now, I ride on the cart while my husband moves it around, stopping at the toy aisle to play with light sabers.
That perfect partner of yours will want to continue making every day a crazy, rollercoaster escapade with you.
10. Theyll Know Youre The One, Too
When things merely feel right, youll know it. In fact, The One will tell you that they see you in the exact same sun as you find them.
Through any ups and downs, your partner will be sure to remind you that theyre not going anywhere. The One will understand your prior issues and make sure you know, over and over again, how much they love you. Their unyielding desire to be by your side will be clear evidence of that.
If you think youve find The One, appreciate em. Embrace it.And if youre still feeling skeptical, a little reassurance from these points never hurt.
I can bet that opportunities are youve detected your forever love.