If you’re anything like me, the existence of “multiple orgasms” seems just about as legitimate as the existence of “wild unicorns.” I have enough trouble finishing one time.( Andddd now I’m blushing .) However, according to a 2015 nationally representative examine of 1,055 women in the U.S. — the OMGYES Pleasure Report — 47 percent of women reported multiple orgasms. So, I have 495.85 more females to be very jealous of. Cool. After corroborating the existence of multiple orgasms — or “MOs” as the cool kids( physicians) call them — I decided to seek out the doctor behind the study to gather sex tips for multiple orgasms so that the rest of us plebeians could catch up with the times.
Debby Herbenick, Ph.D, professor at Indiana University and writer of expressed the view that multiple orgasms are actually defined as “basically two or more orgasms in a row, without taking a break in between them.” That’s right, two in a row. I’m even more impressed by these almost-4 96 women now. Because I want MOs too, I had to know how to the rest of us attain this level of greatness.
In the study, the team asked these women about their technique regarding the actual styles they were able to MO. So all of these tips and tricks in fact come immediately from the source. I asked Dr. Herbenick about what women who were able to finish more than once recommended, and here’s the great intel she shared 😛 TAGEND
1. Keep Going With The Same Kind Of Stimulation
One third of the women who reported multiple orgasms said they were able to achieve them simply by continuing with the technique that got them off in the first place. “In other words, find what you like and — even after orgasm number one — keep going with that same consistent technique, ” explains Dr. Herbenick. “Whether that’s a part of touching, intercourse, oral sex, toy play, and so on.”
With P in V sexuality, a male partner is usually done when he’s done, which could make this “continuation” difficult if he has already finished. That said, if you were utilizing a vibrator in the bedroom, it would be easy to keep it running even after you’ve peaked your first time. And with oral? Just ask bae to keep it coming.
2. Switch Things Up
Yes, this is in fact the opposite of the previous tip-off. Women’s bodies truly are all different, beautiful blooms like our mommies said. Dr. Herbenick shared that another third of the survey’s respondents relied on a completely different kind of stimulation from what they used to reach their first orgasm. So, for example, perhaps penetration got them off the first time, but then adding that vibrator to the mixture brought the second orgasm into existence.
Additionally, “slightly more than half of the women said that they enjoyed returning to earlier kinds of stimulation to’ rebuild’ their arousal and experience additional orgasms, ” explains Dr. Herbenick. Basically, heading back the route of foreplay and oral was helpful to obtain the second orgasm.
3. Get To Know Your Body
I feel like females are told this all the time, and I consistently am not exactly sure what it entails. Am I supposed to hold a mirror up to my nether regions and map things out? Am I supposed to expend a whole afternoon disproving my responsibilities and touching myself instead?
Dr. Herbenick violated it down for me: Knowing your body means identifying what it likes and what it responds to. You likely know how to get yourself off, right? Take that info into the bedroom, and don’t be afraid to share it with your partner.
And when it comes to communicating with your partner, don’t fake it ’til you make it. “If you fake orgasms, you’re giving your partner false information and they can’t as easily help you have one, let alone multiple, orgasms, ” she explained. Very wise. MOs are yet another reason not to put on an Oscar-winning performance in the bedroom.
4. Be Patient With Yourself
Dr. Herbenick told me that it’s important not to put to much pressure on the whole “multiple orgasms” thing. Even one orgasm can be interrupted by our overachieving minds that tell us to “hurry up and do it already.” In reality, you need to take the pressure off to get to one — or more — orgasms.
Orgasming is hard, so don’t fret if it doesn’t come easy to you. “Nearly all women are capable of experiencing orgasm, even if takes some months or years to initially learn to experience orgasm, ” says Dr. Herbenick. “We don’t know if all women can have multiple orgasms, but many surely can.”
Patience, exploration, and indulgence in learning how to pleasure yourself( alone or with a partner) are vital if you want to be in the right head space to go for the MO gold. But you don’t have to even strive for multiple orgasms, says Dr. Herbenick. “Even women who are capable of multiple orgasms don’t always choose to have them. Quite often, one lovely orgasm is pleasure enough.”
And if you don’t even get one O? You can still have some pleasure, and have a little fun. Keep going for it, and soon you’ll obtain the MOs you’ve always dreamed of. It can be frustrating when you feel like your partner is consistently get of, and if your partner is a man, you’re likely right. But while humen can orgasm more regularly, they don’t have the recharging capabilities to MO, which is another reason that it’s pretty cool to be a lady.
Now, go experiment and add your own outcomes to the mix. Make MOs your new MO.( Modus Operandi , not Missouri .)
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Sometimes I’m just like, “I wanna have sexlike a frog. I want my boyfriend to impregnate me by spitting his sperm all over my back and letting it drip down to fertilize my eggs.”
OK , not really. But I have you interested now, right?
Ah, it’s June. The season of love. And not just for us humans. Animals are get after it, too. But more importantly, we should learn about how these animals are get after it and take notes.
Why? Because it’s the time of year when we want to spice up our sexuality lives. What better style to do that than taking a page from the book of the animal kingdom? Animals are way freakier than you are. They like to GET DOWN in some weird ways, yo.
Now, these animal sex stances may traumatize you a little bit, but what is sexuality if not a fun and interesting experience that is slightly scaring? Disclaimer: I made their lists of these positions up myself. You’re welcome.
Onward, I tell!
The Fizz Back
Bombay night frogs are essentially Millennial females in that the male frog will cum on their back and then leave. Audio a lot like last Friday night, doesn’t it, ladies? You gratify a guy at the bar, bring him home, let him cum on you and then never hear from him again.
After the female frog get jizzed on, the sperm percolates down her back and fertilizes her eggs. Forget love making, this is modern romance. Straight up.
Doggy Style Pro
Dogs aren’t the only ones running at it from behind. Monkeys are all about it, too. Monkeys, they’re just like us. They do it in missionary, they have lesbian sexuality, they do it all.
Just when you thought you couldn’t feel any weirder about sex, monkeys also love doggy style. I’m kind of about it. You know you’re kind of about it, too.
Turtle In The Rough
Sea turtles are some of the oldest living creatures on globe, so it attains sense we’d want to know how they copulate so we can understand how they sustain.
JUST KIDDING. We simply want to know about how they have sexbecause we’re freaks. I first imagined sea turtles softly copulating at a very slow pace, while the female daintily eats some moss, butI was wrong.
Sea turtles actually love it rough. While the female is swimming horizontally in the water, the male turtle mounts her. According to Live Science, the male turtle hooks his long, sharp fingernails into his lady’s shell to hang on. Often times, this will cut up her scalp. It’s turtle BDSM.
So, this is fun. For all you femme fatales out there, this might be the look for you. Praying mantises don’t just make passionate, sweet love to their mates … the female fees the head off the male during intercourse. Yummy.
According to the very reliable source, Wikipedia, sexual cannibalism occurs when mates do not agree on how to reproduction. It’s a sort of aggression.
Female praying mantises actually have the right notion: Fuck him and kill him. Just kidding … kind of. Am I?
69, Earthworm Style
Now, the coolest thing about earthworms is that they’re hermaphrodites. This means that both worms have male and female sex organ. After they mate, both worms walk away with fertilized eggs. It’s rad AF.
To bang, they line their bodies up in opposite directions. Then, a sludge-like gunk covers them while they reproduction. It’s basically 69, merely there is no actual sex involved.
Fly ‘ N ‘ Fuck
I loved dragonflies growing up. They are just so god damn majestic. Dragonflies are cool, but they route they have sex is even cooler. They fuck while flying, you guys.
They connect mid-air and the male fertilizes the female. I imagine it is a spectacular thing to behold. Goodbye, childhood wonder.
Back To Back
Octopi do more than simply squirt ink. To have sex, they align themselves back to back. An octopus’s nose, used for mating, is located on its back. Now, if you tried this at home, it might not work out so well because you’re a human. But if there’s a will, there’s a way.
As a Pillow Princess, being on top is depleting. But for all you strong ladies out there, the Bunny Bop is perfect for you. Bunnies have sexfuriously, so you should, too. Maybe.
Wonder Woman says to have your human lie down with his legs together and squat over him. Then you furiously bang his dick up and down. It’s literally a cardio workout.